25 Scary Hookups That Happen to Gay Men

Sex can be scary, particularly if it happens in one of these horrifying scenarios.

25 Scary Hookups That Happen to Gay Men

A Word of Warning From Writer Alexander Cheves

1. Your first time.

2. Your first anonymous hookup.

3. Your first app hookup.

4. Your first time in a dark backroom.

5. When he wants to hurt you — and not in a good way.

6. Your first time getting catfished.

7. Your first kinky play date.

8. When he’s overly pushy.

9. When party favors were not on the agenda — but he’s using them.

10. When there are a LOT more people involved than you expected.

11. When he’s angry/aggressive.

12. When you get the vibe that he’s baiting you.

13. Your first hookup after you become HIV-positive.

14. Your first hookup with a gay couple.

15. Your first sex party.

16. When you make a mess — that kind of mess.

17. When you realize that he’s fetishizing something about you.

18. The first time you and your boyfriend take home a third.

19. Hot, risky public sex.

20. Hookups in a foreign country where you don’t know anyone.

21. When sex drugs take you to a bad mental/emotional place.

22. When he says “I love you” — after you just met.

23. When he starts talking about fidelity and being faithful — after you just met.

24. When you’re a seasoned hookup pro — but you still make all the wrong decisions.

25. Hookups in the middle of nowhere.

25 Scary Hookups That Happen to Gay Men 

Sex can be scary, particularly if it happens in one of these horrifying scenarios.